Ryan was so gentle and kind. The way he treated people physically and emotionally showed love and respect. This world is a better place because of his life.
Ryan was a man of many talents! He could quote any movie line and ALWAYS had something funny to say. He was such a shining star and his life reflected this gift. I miss you, Ryan!!! We all love you very much...
The thing that comes to mind when I think of Ryan is the way he ever-so-gently put his arm around me with his hand on my shoulder when I would see him. I can just about feel him patting me and saying "Hello."
Ryan and I would gang up on Mom while we played card games, just to give her a hard time. We would stay up all night playing games and eating sour gummy worms. I don't feel whole anymore without him.
Ryan was such a gentleman. Whenever he was around, I knew I could count on him to open doors for me or just let me hold on to his arm. He never was embarrassed to have his aunt holding on to him. Ryan you are a true gentlemen and gentle man. I miss you, Aunt Susie
every time i saw ryan he would always give me that mischievious grin and a big hug! he had many accomplishments -- Christian life, college graduate, lived in a foreign land, lived his dream! ryan, i love you and you will always be in my heart!!
I will always think of Ryan's ever-present smile when I think of him! He was never embarrassed to hang around us "old folks." He was always happy even when life wasn't always good to him. I will miss him a lot!!
One memory I have of Ryan, it was for a holloween party and Josha dressed up as a Junior mint and I went as a coffee cup from my fav place and Ryan was given the uniform for Nabisko and he went carring his box of crackers as the Nabisko man. Josha and I tried to convince him to be a cracker, but he had already made up his mind (after that there was no changing it) We all looked pretty goofy!
I never would have ever gotten to now Ryan or ever even talked to him except that I joined Tri-Phi my freshman year. When I got to know Ryan I realized that he had a unique sense of humor, he loved to laugh. Ryan's smile will always be in my memory. I feel like going out and buying a Billy Idol shirt...
Ryan loved to laugh and have fun. He was always smiling and looking to have a good time. One of my favorite memories of Ryan is having him join our family on the 4th of July. I remember this last year he even brought his dog along with him. He was also quite excited to get to help light the fireworks.
My fondest memories are of Ryan wandering by my office to show off a new Billy Idol T-Shirt. I would show the requisite awe and respect for his new purchase and we would then talk about Billy Idol. That was fun for me, because looking back on that it seemed as if Ryan were sharing something that was truly shring himself. Those were always good times.
I remember calling Ryan one night after I heard he had a serious seizure. He told me what happened and we had prayer. I remember our conversation ended like this: "See you later Ryan." "OK." "Bye." "OK." "Hope you feel better." "OK." I'm hanging up now." "OK." "Ryan, is everything OK?" "Yeah, when are you going to hang up?" "I thought you would first." "No, you should." "Ryan, are you sitting there smiling?" (I knew he was) "Yeah." "OK, I'll hang up." "Go ahead." "Bye." "OK, hang up now." Click.
I have a lot of memories floating around in my head: Ryan's impish smile, his willingness to help, his being embarrassed by his mom's fussing over him.
My most vivid memory of him is when he brought his new best friend in for me to meet. Being a dog lover I was more than willing to ask him about "Where did you find her?" "How did she travel?" While pulling information out of him was not always easy, but he was more than willing to share dog stories. He was so proud of his "four-legged child"
I also remember the excitement in his voice and the sparkle in his eyes the day he was leaving to go back to Korea. He loved what he was getting ready to do. Not everyone can say the same.
i remember being so impressed with ryan wanting to live in korea...it takes a special person to be willing to leave all he knows to do something he loved. i can only hope i have that kind of courage in my life...
it was crazy hat day at school. as they kids were all leaving, one fifth grader went by with a "duck" hat on complete with the button to make quacking sounds. i immediately thought that is something ryan would wear on crazy hat day! i miss him.
it was crazy hat day at school. as they kids were all leaving, one fifth grader went by with a "duck" hat on complete with the button to make quacking sounds. i immediately thought that is something ryan would wear on crazy hat day! i miss him.
I have great memories of Ryan, being a Phi Alpha sister I got to enjoyed fun times with him. I remember him walking around campus and saying "Hi Jello" from far away with a huge smile on his face and he would always make me smile. Ryan was just one of those people that you couldn't be serious around him. I am sad about him leaving.
When I attended Cascade, there was a good group of us who attended Metro. The Griffith Family, including Ryan, often invited us into their home (at the time, they were living in one of the campus houses). I remember how much of a younger brother Ryan was to several of us, and how many laughs we all shared together. There are many people who I consider to have been part of my "college family," and the Griffiths are some of those wonderful people. The loss of Ryan has saddened me, but I am so thrilled that he was doing something that he loved. I hope to be in that position when I leave this world too.
Ryan was like one of my kids. In fact, a couple of years ago he gave me a Mother’s Day card which was one of the most touching things anyone has ever done for me outside of my family. I was so proud of him for following his dream and going to Korea, not once but twice! Ryan was an inspiration to me with his quiet determination to pursue his passions in spite of his physical challenges. He will be greatly missed by my family and me.
I have many memories of Ryan, all of them good. He was always a joy to be around. Ryan and I would often engage in good-natured battle of wits. I think I usually came out on the short end, but I enjoyed them nonetheless. When I think of Ryan, I think of camping at Lost Lake, sand boarding in Florence, fireworks on the 4th, and many other good times. I remember his artistic ability and will always cherish the portrait he drew of me during the sermon one Sunday morning. God has blessed each of us that had the fortune of knowing Ryan and I take comfort in knowing he is home with God now.
Ryan taught my four year old daugters Sunday school class with Diana earlier this year. It was wonderful to see both mother and son teaching together, spending time with the children. Ryan had a gentle spirit and love for teaching that will be remembered.
I didn't really know Ryan that well, but I recall being at the Griffith's house last year for a SIFE party and meeting Ryan and his little dog. His smile stood out to me. His sense of humor lightened the evening up in the best of ways, was pleasure to be around. His caring and kind attitude was reflected in one night, and his godliness stood out. My prayers are with his family and friends.
Ryan was a student of mine at Columbia Christian High school where I taught art. Ryan had a natural talent and a good curiosity for all things art. He was particularly interested in our John Singer Sargent unit. Ryan fell in love with a portrait of a certain Madame Guatreau painted by Sargent around 1883. It pleased me so much as his teacher that when we went to the exhibit, Ryan purchased the poster of Madame. I asked him if he thought he had enough money and indeed he did. The poster was at least $25. and he told me he would hang it in his room at home. I think he was a little in love with her. Ryan was my neighbor when the Griffiths first moved from Texas. He'd always stop to chat if he saw me out in my yard. He did this a number of times and I was always so happy to keep up with him. After college, I lost track of him, didn't know he'd gone to Korea. I shall miss him - its hard to look over at the Gardner House or the College across the street and know that he's busy elsewhere. But he's in the BEST elsewhere and what a joy he must give to everyone there in Heaven.
I'm sorry to say I didn't know Ryan very well, but I know he was a big help to his mom at school. The first time I saw Ryan was at the CCS auction, the year it was held in our building. He was kinda "hanging" around and I wasn't sure who it was, but then I found out and asked if he could help watch the room where all the auction items were being held for people to pick up...he was happy to help. The other time was right before school started a couple of years ago and his mom was moving into a "new" classroom (new to her)...there were many things to move..books, books and more books. He was right there to help her with the many trips up and down to get things situated. You could see they were a good team together. Ryan's life and death have touched so many of us. Being the office manager at the school where Ryan's mom works and having to share the information with many of our parents I see their reaction to losing a child and the grief they feel for Mr. & Mrs. Griffith. I pray that the pain will somehow ease a little bit more with everyday that passes. I know that this has brought many of us closer together at our school. God knows the plan, even if we don't, that is what I am sure of. With Love, Chris Catt
I remember Ryan playing farkle. We played farkle with the Griffiths a lot. We played at Christmas and at any occasion that warranted a party. Every time we had a party, I remember Diana fussing over him until she got herself all worked up and he'd just give that little sideways grin that said "aw mom! You can't keep me little forever!". And Diana kind of knew that, but she just wanted to make it all good for her family all of the time. They had a special bond that you could see. He adored his mom. Even the nagging in a way. You could see it in the way he groaned, but never belittled her pestering. There was no doubt that this was a family that knew about loving one another. This family has always been an example to me of what love and hospitality really are. Down to earth. Real. Nothing contrived. Their dedication and devotion to each other provides the bedrock solid enough to reach out with authenticity to others. This is what I saw in Ryan. His determination to go to Korea. The way he unsolicitously captured the hearts of those closest to him. Ryan gave of himself because he was grounded in a family that loved him truly and selflessly.
Mike and Diana- We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious son, Ryan. I know you are comforted to know that he is in Heaven, but I also know how terribly you will miss him. After all these years I can still remember you so fondly and will be praying for you in the coming days. Shari Jackson (Houston, TX)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I remember how much Jonathan enjoyed spending the night with Ryan and joining all of you when you went to the Mesquite Rodeo and Dinosaur Park in Glen Rose. We know you are comforted that Ryan is in his heavenly home. God bless you and keep you and give you his peace. Connie McCollum (Arlington, TX)
Mike, Diana, Sara, and Caleb- We love your family tremendously. We think of you as extended family. We will always remember Ryan's sweet hugs and funny handshakes. And who couldn't resist those pearly whites of his as he smiled! Sara and Ryan were truly a special brother/sister team. We are holding your family up in prayer. May God work through all of us to give you the comfort and support you need. ....Can't you just imagine how Ryan and Chris Pollard are cheating each other at card games in heaven? Love, James and Tommie Varney Family (Arlington, TX)
Mike, Diana, Sara and Caleb- Hope you remember us. We wil never foget the Griffith family. One of the sad things about being a military family is not getting to see young people we cherish grow to adulthood, but all indications are that Ryan was truly a young Christian whose life was blessed by God. I share with you in your grief at this time and I pray for you all daily. I feel comforted that Ryan and "Big Bill" Taylor are in paradise together with Chris Pollard. I know you will cry and have many days of pain, but speaking as one who had a recent and sudden loss, you will also smile when you think of some of the special (sometimes silly) things your precious son did. I believe with all my heart that God will give us what we need moment by moment to deal with the absence of our loved ones. Ryan's work here is complete (as was Bill's) now it is up to us to continue to fight the good fight of faith until one day when we are all united. I am so sorry I am not there to give you a special "Taylor" hug. May you find comfort in God's promises. In Christian love, Juanita Taylor (Pensacola, FL)
I have continualy carried all of you to Jesus in prayer since the announcement of your loss of Ryan. Jan and I have sweet memories of Ryan here at Woodland West and treasure them. We're so sorry. May Jesus' comfort and love bring you peace. Love, Pat and Jan Wilhelm (Arlington, TX)
To The Loving Griffith Family: I really don't have words to say what I truly feel at this time. I think it's hard for anyone to do so especially when it deals with someone so young and questions come to mind about of what he might have become later on in life. But that is just it, Ryan became what he was supposed to be and that was just Ryan. God made him to live for such a time as this. I have so many memories of him growing up in Church and doing youth activities at your home. And I especially remember how protective he was of you Sara. His spunky way about everything is what made him stand out to me. I laugh at the memories that have been playing in my mind like movies these past few days. Not enought time or space for that. No matter how long you knew him, I thank God for giving him to us for 24 amazing and wonderful years. He truly modeled Christianity and blessed anyone who was able to know him. Ryan is at HOME and has reached the land of promise. We love you and miss you all. May His grace and peace be with you. Zeph 3:14-17 In Christian Love, Jonathan (Arlington), Cora and Savannah Buehler (Alpharetta, GA)
Griffith Family, Ryan was so special to all of us and I just remember how his smile could light up the room in an instant. I am so saddened by his passing, but am rejoicing in the truth that he is with our Lord. Our prayers are with each of you. Barbara (Norman) Klepper (Tulsa, OK)
Dear Diana, Mike & family, I want to send my sympathy w/Christian love. My first association w/you was Gladstone Church of Christ in Kansas City, Missouri and then when Diana was my granddaughter's fist babysitter in Arlington, TX. "Baby Sara" is now 20 and a junior at the University of Houston. I called Janice when I heard the sad news about Ryan from Annabelle Richardson at Granbury. The Richardsons plan to attend the service tomorrow and I will attend also. Any loss is so sad and having lost a son as you have I am truly understanding of this great loss. Leland died after suffering a fatal heart attack at age 50 in 2004. Maybe could have been easier for me if my husband could have helped me through it but we lost Roy in 2002. He had lots of heart problems and then was dianosed w/ cancer which had spread to his bones at the time of diagnosis. Ina Malone (Arlington, TX)
i had a great memory of ryan the other night. one time he and i took a walk in his old neighborhood in arlington. we talked about a bunch of stuff and he told me about a girl he thought was cute. i can't remember how old we were exactly but i know i was a teenager so he wasn't too far behind. great memory and i miss him very much!
I think about you every day and pray for comfort and peace for you.
The other day, I remembered how, when Ryan was little, when he wanted to tell you that something was his favorite, he'd call it his best. For instance, his best color was green. Thinking of that brought a smile.
The first time Ryan and I went to Opportunity Camp in California, he worked with the younger boys. He would let them climb all over him and would carry them all over the camp. It didn't matter if the destination was all uphill he had at least two kids hanging all over him. :)
I was talking with some friends today and couldn't think of a line to the movie we were discussing. I immediately thought of Ryan! He was my go-to man when I needed movie trivia help. Later on when I thought of the answer, it wasn't as gratifying as it would have been if Ryan had helped me. I miss Rhino.
Ryan was always a gentleman when the Phi Alphas had their sleepover at his house. I remember freshman year, my first sleepover, and he showed us the new appliance in the basement. He was so proud of the pop cooler fridge thing he'd managed to swipe from the student center. We thought it was funny. It's not like anybody ever used the thing...
i miss ryan so much. everytime i open this site my stomach just aches. larry and i were talking about ryan last week. i was remember how happy and excited ryan sounded the night before he left for korea. that is a happy thought for me -- ryan was doing what he wanted to do and so happy. but i do miss him.
It has been almost a year now since Ryan left us for his heavenly home. How we miss him!! He has left such a huge hole in our lives and hearts. Ryan, we are sad because you are not here but we are comforted to know you are with God in His loving hands.
we miss you so much, ryan! you may be gone but you are never forgotten...such a man is impossible to forget no matter the separation...this burden of sadness will always be carried by those who knew you and loved you. mike, diana, sarah, and caleb...my heart breaks again with you...i will help you to carry this...ryan, i thought of your perfect impression of jim carrey today and laughed out loud...thank you!! we miss and love you, brother!!!!
Larry and I had the pleasure ot keeping our grandson Ethan this weekend. I kept thinking that Ethan reminded me of someone. Finally, Larry figured it for me -- Ryan as a little boy. Ryan had an impish little smile and he could use such expressive facial expressions. Ethan has some of those same expressions. Ryan will not be forgotten!
I went out to the swimming pool on this cold December day and guess who I automatically thought of...Ryan and the day his dad dared him to jump in the pool for $$$. I don't think Mike thought he would do it, but Ryan showed him!!!. Of course his aunts had hot towels for him when he got out. Boy was Ryan shivering. It is a wonder he had any teeth after that---they were chattering so much. Miss you Ryan, but looking forward to when we meet again.
I remember finding all the cards mom kept all those years. Ryan gave so many to mom and dad. I remember one from Ryan for Valentine's Day. It had hearts and lots of xoxoxoxo on it. His heart was gigantic.
As I look over the words I wrote to go onto the blog "Although we are saddened by his passing..." I kind of want to vomit. That sounds so impersonal. But what to say? "We are devastated he was taken so soon?" Is that better? More appropriate? Poo on all of it.
Yes, I know he is with God but sometimes, that doesn't make me feel much better. I want my brother.
A memory of Ryan... Let's see. We used to dig holes in our backyard to trap "intruders." We would cover the holes with sticks and leaves so that when the "intruder" stepped down, it would look like regular ground but they would fall. It's a wonder we didn't break a leg or something.
I remember one Easter our family spent at Dinosaur Valley and Fossil Rim. We hunted eggs at our camp ground then fed the animals at Fossil Rim. That might have been the trip the ostrich tried to eat our tags through the window... Good times.
Happy 27th birthday. We miss you SO much! We wish you could be here to see little Ryan-he is adorable like you were when you were just a little guy. Mom and I are taking good care of little Soo Young for you but she misses you too. WLY
Well, bud, Ryan can now roll over like a champ! He has lots of reddish hair. Wonder where he got that? I hope he also gets your impish smile when you are doing something mischievous and your kind demeanor. I have told him all about you. In fact, several stories I will have to wait until he is much older to retell because it will give him some bad ideas! Ideas like jumping off the house onto the trampoline and throwing pecans at passing cars! I miss you.
Well, I told you that my Ryan was rolling over. Now, not two weeks later, he is doing it both ways. I am such a proud mama. You know, I am a proud sister, too. I am so proud that you graduated from Cascade, despite all your health issues. Really, Ryan. That is so great. When we talk to Claire and my Ryan about college, we can tell them that we ALL graduated from Christian colleges. What a good example!
Well, little bro, I am really missing you today. It was one of those days when I just wanted to hear your soft voice. And not just a recording of it. The real thing. I miss you.
I can't believe it's been 3 years! I know Mike, Diana, Sara and Caleb miss Ryan so much! I remember all the smiles he brought to his family and friends! I miss you, Ryan.
I don't like starting a new year without you. Claire told God to tell you HI the other day during our prayer. I honestly can say that I almost had a cow. I don't know where she got that from. Your niece and nephew are missing out on so much. :(
Well, bud, your namesake is rolling everywhere. Not quite crawling yet but still getting around by the roll. First words: dada, bubba (don't get me started on how hick that sounds!) and mama. I know you would love to see him at this age. He is so happy and fun. Claire, too. They are missing out on so much by not knowing you. They will know you through the stories I tell them but it's not enough. Never enough.
I scared Claire today. I jumped out from behind Mom and Dad's new house. I didn't mean to scare her as much as I did. She peed her pants. Oops. We all thought you would've been rolling on the floor laughing, like the rest of us. Hopefully, her counseling bill won't be too high. Miss you, bud.
Hey bud. I was thinking about the puff ball that is Soo. How she was so fluffy the day you bought her. I was glad to be there that day. You chose the right dog. Remember you almost chose the white one. It was way too hyper. Then little Soo poked about and won your heart. Mom and Dad, especially Dad, are taking good care of her. Dad dotes on that dog like he gave birth to her! Haha. I guess he hanging on to every bit of you he can. Can't say that I blame him. Miss you.
Mom and Dad get back from Hawaii tomorrow. I bet we would all go on vacations together. Shoot, if you were still in South Korea, Hawaii would be a fantastic place to meet!
Ryan, we took you to the airport 4 years ago today. You were so excited to take Soo Young that you almost left a carry-on bag at security. We miss you so much, and Claire and little Ryan are missing having you as the excellent uncle you would have been to them. Sara keeps your name and picture in Claire's mind and I am sure Ryan will also learn about his namesake. Sara misses you so much. Love you always and forever. Mom
About four years ago, baby Claire and I were flying to Oregon to surprise Dad for his 60th birthday. We got him good! You were already in Korea but we had planned to give Dad 60 gifts. We had everything from those cheap black combs he likes to Sonic gift cards to Wolf Brand chili to the hanbuk you sent from Korea.
I love fall. It is my favorite time of year, except it is the anniversary of the worst day of my life. I try to think about it positively. You went to meet our Savior in the fall. That works for a while but I miss you.
I bought the Sword and the Stone for the kids. Remember that one? Merlin and Wart/Arthur? Claire got a kick out of knowing that we watched it when we were little.
It's been four long years. We miss you so much. Little things remind me of you: a texas flag, family times, a friendly game of 14, the zoo, the handrails on the escalator (yes, I still have to hold on to them). Your life was cut short at least in human years but I know your years in heaven have been wonderful. We all miss you so much.
What to write that hasn't already been written? I miss you. Selfishly, I wish you were still here. Caleb discovered a new game that he thinks you would have loved, Wahoo. He is making one for Christmas. Claire has learned that you liked Skittles, so she uses it against me. "Mommy, Uncle Griff looooved Skittles. May I have some?" What a stinker. And my Ryan has dark eyes, much darker than my own. He may have light hair, but his eyes are yours. As for me, I think about you every day. I feel like I have lost a big part of me. Sometimes Mom and Dad will say or do something that I wish I could share with you because you would get such a kick out of it. I guess you probably already know about it, but I still want to be able to call you up.
I was talking to Ryan about you. I showed him the picture I have on my fridge. Caleb and I had just surprised you and Mom and Pop by telling you I was pregnant with Claire. In the picture Caleb and I are next to you and Mom with the bouquet of babies breath. I told Ryan all about it. He looked and said Uncle. My heart melted. He will know you. He will because I will tell him about you. I miss you.
I remember how much you love Christmas, Son. We've been thinking about you all day. Dad and I left Sara and her family this morning. Ryan can say "uncle" now. Sara is keeping your life in her children's lives. She loves you so much and misses you so much. Forever and forever we love you. Mom and Pop
I took the kids to McD's by way of the drive-thru this morning. I was flooded of memories of us stopping there for breakfast, just the two of us, on the way to AHS. You would get OJ and sausage biscuits. I would get DC and apple pies. It is a wonder I didn't weigh 200 pounds.
It hurts so much. Not seeing you. Not getting to make new memories with you.
In some ways it is easier now. But others, still extremely hard. I know it won't ever go away. I don't want it to. That would mean I had forgotten. I won't forget. It aches in me. Something that big never goes away. You were and still are a big presence in my life. I love you, bud.
It has been 4 years 9 months. Long years and months. Today is July 4, 2012. You loved this holiday, all the fireworks, going to Karen's house, going to Debra and Larry's house where they bought you loads of fireworks. We watched you pop all of them on their driveway. You always loved this day. We miss you south, Ryan. Mom
We're approaching 5 years and even that thought brings on The Great Sadness from that book called The Shack. It seems like that's how I am most of the time now. You'd think that Mom and I would get better after 5 years but we continue to think how happy you'd be to live in Texas again. We miss you so much. Mom and I take good care of Soo Young and I tell her 2 or 3 times a week about why she's so special-you picked her out at that pet store in Suwon, loved her, took good care of her and flew across the Pacific Ocean with her twice. We have a lot of wonderful, loving memories of your life but Soo is maybe our last physical connection to you. October 4th is going to be very hard this year. You are always in our hearts.
Hey bud. We celebrated Mom's birthday yesterday. Dad's is next week. You sent them traditional Korean outfits for their birthdays that last year. This time of year is always hard. Missing you. Remembrances are always more sad than happy in the fall. But we do remember. Know that. MB
October is here. Coming up on 5 years. We are going to have our first family pictures taken since you died. I know it is going to be hard for Mom and Dad especially. We have avoided it until now. Know that we remember you and miss you every day.
We made it past the five year mark. It was a long day of crying. Some happy tears of remembering and some sad tears of missing you. Know that we DO miss you.
Your namesake turns three next month. He has got a twinkle in his eyes that reminds me of you. Geez, I miss you, bro. I wish his eyes could remind me of you and then I could simply CALL you to talk to you. This sucks.
Ryan, Sara, Claire, Ryan, Debra and Larry and I all had a Ryan breakfast this morning in McPherson. Chicken fried steak was tasty. It is still so hard. June 6 holds so many memories of you. I wish dad could have been with us. He takes such good care of Soo for you. Please know how much we miss you and love you. Missing you forever, Mom
Ryan, We saw you for the last time six years ago yesterday. We took you and Soo to the airport not knowing we wouldn't see you again. Know we think of you daily and miss you so much that it hurts. We love you forever. Mom
I am missing you today, Griff. Claire starts school tomorrow, second grade. It brings back memories of you and I smiling for pictures on our first days of school. I really wish my kids would have more than my stories to know you. It really just breaks my heart. I love you, Sara
October 1. Were you feeling bad at this time seven years ago? Was your blood sugar high? Low? Why didn't you try to fix it? Maybe you did try. I wish you had tried harder. I wish you were here today and these next few days meant nothing to me.
The kids went to the Bunny Breakfast this morning. They ate pancakes, did crafts, played a little mini golf and hunted for eggs. I can't help but think you would have been a fun uncle. I can see you tagging along with them and helping. Miss you, buddy.
Eight years ago today was the start of the Great Sadness our family suffers through, bud. It meets is in our dreams and haunts us in our memories. But, saddest of all, it has robbed us of a future with you. We love you and miss you terribly. 8 years.
Ryan lost another tooth today. His big toothless grin made me think of a picture I have of you, looking almost the same. Only your hair color is different, so auburn. Miss you, bud.
Ryan, I miss your smile today as another Mother's Day passes without you. You know that I love Sara so much and still miss you and what Sara and her family will miss out on without you.
I am trying hard to see beyond this world. To know in my heart that Jesus took you home. I am sad you went so far ahead of me. I miss you. But I am remembering that this isn't forever. I will see you when I go home, too. Make a spot for me. Best 2 out of 3 in 14?
I read tonight about death bringing on feelings of sorrow upon sorrow. That phrase hit home. Even though I know Heaven is real, I hurt. It hurts like hell for you to be gone.
Tomorrow is 10 years since you’ve been gone. I miss you all the time. When Mom does something goofy, I can’t look over at you and make a face. I sometimes look up to where you are but it isn’t the same. 10 years. Sorrow upon sorrow.
Sara sent videos of Claire and Ryan reading their Easter cards. Ryan really loved reading his and acted like you would have. You would love your niece and nephew, just like they would love you. We miss you so much. It hurts.
Hey, Griff, you are so missed here. Tomorrow is July 4 here in Kingwood, a place you have never lived. Little Soo gets scared with all the fireworks going off so she will be in one of our laps all day. She is a little porker! She does love her treats. We are taking good care of your sweet, little dog, and tell her we do it for you, We love you and miss seeing and being with you even though you are in Heaven now. It has been a long 10 and 1/2 years without you here. Our hearts still hurt. Mom and Dad
I didn't want to go to work today. I wanted to stay home and feel bad, not pretend to be normal in front of a classroom. Today I feel crummy because of you and today I can fake my smile because of you. I wish you were here and today was just like any other day. My Ryan found a tiny frog outside this weekend. It was the size of a dime. That little thing hopped all over him. He laughed like you would have, with unadulterated joy. He has your eyes, dark and kind, and your name. I gave him an extra hug this morning on his way out the door to school for you. I hope you felt it.
Hey, bud. We are moving from a house that you have never lived in. As we pack, I find things that were yours. I love seeing your things, but it so bittersweet. Miss you so much and love you, Mom
I went for a walk this morning and a red bird flew around me for a half a block. Even though it is cold and nasty outside and the walk was miserable, that red bird made my day.
Claire and Ryan love to hear stories about you. I told Ryan the one about you and Andrew giving a hamster/gerbil CPR with a straw. He cracked up hearing it. It helped me sleep that night. We love and miss you so much. You will be 36 next month. Missing you do much especially as Mothers Day passes by without you and your birthday arrives. I love remembering the day you were born. You were perfect! Now you are perfect with God. Mom
Your 36th birthday is today. We had gravy with biscuits this morning and CF steak tonight. Claire and Ryan would have loved you. You would have spoiled them. Sara keeps your memory alive for them. I told Ryan about you and Andrew trying to resuscitate that hamster with a straw. Ryan just laughed and giggled. Miss you, bud.
Happy birthday, little brother. Know that you are missed every day, and especially today. I ate shrimp scampi for lunch, al by myself. While I didn’t eat as much as you were known to do, I thought of you with each bite. Claire and Ryan love hearing about you.
It has a long 12 years tomorrow since we last saw you, Ryan. Such a long time yet such a short time you were here with us. Dad, Sara, and I miss you so much, son.
Tomorrow is your birthday. You would be 37. Buddy, we miss you so that it hurts my heart. Sara misses you and has made sure Claire and Ryan know who their Uncle Ryan was.
Ryan, your little Soo is with you now. We are missing her but it is more important that you know we miss you so much that we still hurt in our hearts like it happened yesterday. We know you are with Jesus. We love you, Son.
Ryan, your little Soo is with you now. We are missing her but it is more important that you know we miss you so much that we still hurt in our hearts like it happened yesterday. We know you are with Jesus. We love you, Son.
I am wearing your most favorite Metallica shirt to sleep, so you’ll be with us tomorrow. It’s not the same without you. Merry Christmas, Rhino. I miss you every day.
Ryan, your sweet sister loves you so much. Anyone can see that love on her face and in her actions. I miss you so much. You always loved Christmas and seeing your family together.
We spread Soo’s ashes near you today, along side a big bag of Skittles. We always celebrate the day you were born, buddy. It is a good day. We love and miss you everyday.
My Ryan reminds me of you sometimes. He is gentle and goofy. I think you would’ve liked him. He likes to hear stories of stuff we did together and of your adventures. I am missing you this Father’s Day. I know Mom and Pop would love to have you with us. I sometimes imagine how much fun we would have if you could only be here.
Aunt Debbie and Uncle Larry got a black poodle today. Pop, Mom and I went with them to pick up the sweet pup. I know you would’ve been as excited as Aunt Debbie was. We miss you, bud.
Your niece and nephew put out Skittles for you today. We are going to the fair to play games, eat fried food and spend all day together. It is easy to do this because we know you would be here with us if you could. So when I eat a Nathan’s corn dog, I will salute you and your kind ways. I love and miss you, little brother.
I don’t know if heavenly birthdays are a thing but I like to think that they are. Give Papaw, Gma and Gpa a big hug from me. We are going to eat CFS today and think of you all day. I miss you every day.
Oh yeah- Christmas gift!! I’m getting a head start this year.
Mom and Pop are moving a mile from my house. It thrills me to no end. Debra and Larry are working hard to get them all situated, I know you would be in the mix, too. I wish YOU could live there too. I love and miss you everyday.
It’s coming up on 15 years. 15 long, hard yet awesome and fulfilling years. I miss you every day, Ryan. Caleb told me this weekend that my Ryan reminded him so much of you. If that is the case, I’m a happy mom.
I think of you every day but especially today, old man. It feels kinda wrong to type that but I know you would call me old, so I am sticking to our usual dynamic. I love and miss you.
Hey bud. I just heard about red eye gravy today. It is gravy made with coffee grounds. I want your opinion on this when I get up there. Coffee grounds?!?! Respectable? We’ll see…
Hey bud- I hope you and Pop are living it up up there. I miss you both so much. It’s hard on Mom and I not being able to see you both. I don’t know how Heaven works- are you 24? Is Pop 76? Sometimes I picture him in his 40s wearing those short basketball shorts he wore. But that would make you a kid, and I really liked adult you. I don’t know. High five Jesus for me and save us a spot.
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Ryan was a man of many talents! He could quote any movie line and ALWAYS had something funny to say. He was such a shining star and his life reflected this gift. I miss you, Ryan!!! We all love you very much...
The thing that comes to mind when I think of Ryan is the way he ever-so-gently put his arm around me with his hand on my shoulder when I would see him. I can just about feel him patting me and saying "Hello."
Ryan and I would gang up on Mom while we played card games, just to give her a hard time. We would stay up all night playing games and eating sour gummy worms. I don't feel whole anymore without him.
Ryan was such a gentleman. Whenever he was around, I knew I could count on him to open doors for me or just let me hold on to his arm. He never was embarrassed to have his aunt holding on to him. Ryan you are a true gentlemen and gentle man. I miss you, Aunt Susie
every time i saw ryan he would always give me that mischievious grin and a big hug! he had many accomplishments -- Christian life, college graduate, lived in a foreign land, lived his dream! ryan, i love you and you will always be in my heart!!
I will always think of Ryan's ever-present smile when I think of him! He was never embarrassed to hang around us "old folks." He was always happy even when life wasn't always good to him. I will miss him a lot!!
One memory I have of Ryan, it was for a holloween party and Josha dressed up as a Junior mint and I went as a coffee cup from my fav place and Ryan was given the uniform for Nabisko and he went carring his box of crackers as the Nabisko man. Josha and I tried to convince him to be a cracker, but he had already made up his mind (after that there was no changing it) We all looked pretty goofy!
I never would have ever gotten to now Ryan or ever even talked to him except that I joined Tri-Phi my freshman year. When I got to know Ryan I realized that he had a unique sense of humor, he loved to laugh. Ryan's smile will always be in my memory. I feel like going out and buying a Billy Idol shirt...
Ryan loved to laugh and have fun. He was always smiling and looking to have a good time. One of my favorite memories of Ryan is having him join our family on the 4th of July. I remember this last year he even brought his dog along with him. He was also quite excited to get to help light the fireworks.
My fondest memories are of Ryan wandering by my office to show off a new Billy Idol T-Shirt. I would show the requisite awe and respect for his new purchase and we would then talk about Billy Idol. That was fun for me, because looking back on that it seemed as if Ryan were sharing something that was truly shring himself. Those were always good times.
I remember calling Ryan one night after I heard he had a serious seizure. He told me what happened and we had prayer. I remember our conversation ended like this:
"See you later Ryan."
"OK."
"Bye."
"OK."
"Hope you feel better."
"OK."
I'm hanging up now."
"OK."
"Ryan, is everything OK?"
"Yeah, when are you going to hang up?"
"I thought you would first."
"No, you should."
"Ryan, are you sitting there smiling?" (I knew he was)
"Yeah."
"OK, I'll hang up."
"Go ahead."
"Bye."
"OK, hang up now."
Click.
I have a lot of memories floating around in my head: Ryan's impish smile, his willingness to help, his being embarrassed by his mom's fussing over him.
My most vivid memory of him is when he brought his new best friend in for me to meet. Being a dog lover I was more than willing to ask him about "Where did you find her?" "How did she travel?" While pulling information out of him was not always easy, but he was more than willing to share dog stories. He was so proud of his "four-legged child"
I also remember the excitement in his voice and the sparkle in his eyes the day he was leaving to go back to Korea. He loved what he was getting ready to do. Not everyone can say the same.
Ryan will be missed, but not forgotten.
i remember being so impressed with ryan wanting to live in korea...it takes a special person to be willing to leave all he knows to do something he loved. i can only hope i have that kind of courage in my life...
it was crazy hat day at school. as they kids were all leaving, one fifth grader went by with a "duck" hat on complete with the button to make quacking sounds. i immediately thought that is something ryan would wear on crazy hat day! i miss him.
it was crazy hat day at school. as they kids were all leaving, one fifth grader went by with a "duck" hat on complete with the button to make quacking sounds. i immediately thought that is something ryan would wear on crazy hat day! i miss him.
I have great memories of Ryan, being a Phi Alpha sister I got to enjoyed fun times with him. I remember him walking around campus and saying "Hi Jello" from far away with a huge smile on his face and he would always make me smile. Ryan was just one of those people that you couldn't be serious around him. I am sad about him leaving.
When I attended Cascade, there was a good group of us who attended Metro. The Griffith Family, including Ryan, often invited us into their home (at the time, they were living in one of the campus houses). I remember how much of a younger brother Ryan was to several of us, and how many laughs we all shared together. There are many people who I consider to have been part of my "college family," and the Griffiths are some of those wonderful people. The loss of Ryan has saddened me, but I am so thrilled that he was doing something that he loved. I hope to be in that position when I leave this world too.
Ryan was like one of my kids. In fact, a couple of years ago he gave me a Mother’s Day card which was one of the most touching things anyone has ever done for me outside of my family. I was so proud of him for following his dream and going to Korea, not once but twice! Ryan was an inspiration to me with his quiet determination to pursue his passions in spite of his physical challenges. He will be greatly missed by my family and me.
I have many memories of Ryan, all of them good. He was always a joy to be around. Ryan and I would often engage in good-natured battle of wits. I think I usually came out on the short end, but I enjoyed them nonetheless. When I think of Ryan, I think of camping at Lost Lake, sand boarding in Florence, fireworks on the 4th, and many other good times. I remember his artistic ability and will always cherish the portrait he drew of me during the sermon one Sunday morning. God has blessed each of us that had the fortune of knowing Ryan and I take comfort in knowing he is home with God now.
Ryan taught my four year old daugters Sunday school class with Diana earlier this year. It was wonderful to see both mother and son teaching together, spending time with the children. Ryan had a gentle spirit and love for teaching that will be remembered.
I didn't really know Ryan that well, but I recall being at the Griffith's house last year for a SIFE party and meeting Ryan and his little dog. His smile stood out to me. His sense of humor lightened the evening up in the best of ways, was pleasure to be around. His caring and kind attitude was reflected in one night, and his godliness stood out. My prayers are with his family and friends.
Ryan was a student of mine at Columbia Christian High school where I taught art. Ryan had a natural talent and a good curiosity for all things art. He was particularly interested in our John Singer Sargent unit. Ryan fell in love with a portrait of a certain Madame Guatreau painted by Sargent around 1883. It pleased me so much as his teacher that when we went to the exhibit, Ryan purchased the poster of Madame. I asked him if he thought he had enough money and indeed he did. The poster was at least $25. and he told me he would hang it in his room at home. I think he was a little in love with her. Ryan was my neighbor when the Griffiths first moved from Texas. He'd always stop to chat if he saw me out in my yard. He did this a number of times and I was always so happy to keep up with him. After college, I lost track of him, didn't know he'd gone to Korea. I shall miss him - its hard to look over at the Gardner House or the College across the street and know that he's busy elsewhere. But he's in the BEST elsewhere and what a joy he must give to everyone there in Heaven.
It has been four weeks today since Ryan passed. Every time I pray, I ask God to tell Ryan HI for me.
I'm sorry to say I didn't know Ryan very well, but I know he was a big help to his mom at school. The first time I saw Ryan was at the CCS auction, the year it was held in our building. He was kinda "hanging" around and I wasn't sure who it was, but then I found out and asked if he could help watch the room where all the auction items were being held for people to pick up...he was happy to help. The other time was right before school started a couple of years ago and his mom was moving into a "new" classroom (new to her)...there were many things to move..books, books and more books. He was right there to help her with the many trips up and down to get things situated. You could see they were a good team together. Ryan's life and death have touched so many of us. Being the office manager at the school where Ryan's mom works and having to share the information with many of our parents I see their reaction to losing a child and the grief they feel for Mr. & Mrs. Griffith. I pray that the pain will somehow ease a little bit more with everyday that passes. I know that this has brought many of us closer together at our school. God knows the plan, even if we don't, that is what I am sure of.
With Love, Chris Catt
I remember Ryan playing farkle. We played farkle with the Griffiths a lot. We played at Christmas and at any occasion that warranted a party. Every time we had a party, I remember Diana fussing over him until she got herself all worked up and he'd just give that little sideways grin that said "aw mom! You can't keep me little forever!". And Diana kind of knew that, but she just wanted to make it all good for her family all of the time. They had a special bond that you could see. He adored his mom. Even the nagging in a way. You could see it in the way he groaned, but never belittled her pestering. There was no doubt that this was a family that knew about loving one another. This family has always been an example to me of what love and hospitality really are. Down to earth. Real. Nothing contrived. Their dedication and devotion to each other provides the bedrock solid enough to reach out with authenticity to others.
This is what I saw in Ryan. His determination to go to Korea. The way he unsolicitously captured the hearts of those closest to him. Ryan gave of himself because he was grounded in a family that loved him truly and selflessly.
Mike, Diana, Sara,& Caleb,
I'm thinking about you today and every day. Praying that God continues to comfort you.
Love you all,
Heather
i am thinking about you guys! i love you and hope you have a good day today...
The Griffiths
The girls and I are sending our love your way during this hard time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Danielle, Madison, and Eden Meaney (Portland, OR)
Mike and Diana-
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious son, Ryan. I know you are comforted to know that he is in Heaven, but I also know how terribly you will miss him. After all these years I can still remember you so fondly and will be praying for you in the coming days.
Shari Jackson (Houston, TX)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I remember how much Jonathan enjoyed spending the night with Ryan and joining all of you when you went to the Mesquite Rodeo and Dinosaur Park in Glen Rose.
We know you are comforted that Ryan is in his heavenly home. God bless you and keep you and give you his peace.
Connie McCollum (Arlington, TX)
Mike, Diana, Sara, and Caleb-
We love your family tremendously. We think of you as extended family. We will always remember Ryan's sweet hugs and funny handshakes. And who couldn't resist those pearly whites of his as he smiled! Sara and Ryan were truly a special brother/sister team. We are holding your family up in prayer. May God work through all of us to give you the comfort and support you need.
....Can't you just imagine how Ryan and Chris Pollard are cheating each other at card games in heaven?
Love, James and Tommie Varney Family (Arlington, TX)
Mike, Diana, Sara and Caleb-
Hope you remember us. We wil never foget the Griffith family. One of the sad things about being a military family is not getting to see young people we cherish grow to adulthood, but all indications are that Ryan was truly a young Christian whose life was blessed by God. I share with you in your grief at this time and I pray for you all daily. I feel comforted that Ryan and "Big Bill" Taylor are in paradise together with Chris Pollard. I know you will cry and have many days of pain, but speaking as one who had a recent and sudden loss, you will also smile when you think of some of the special (sometimes silly) things your precious son did. I believe with all my heart that God will give us what we need moment by moment to deal with the absence of our loved ones. Ryan's work here is complete (as was Bill's) now it is up to us to continue to fight the good fight of faith until one day when we are all united. I am so sorry I am not there to give you a special "Taylor" hug. May you find comfort in God's promises. In Christian love,
Juanita Taylor (Pensacola, FL)
I have continualy carried all of you to Jesus in prayer since the announcement of your loss of Ryan. Jan and I have sweet memories of Ryan here at Woodland West and treasure them. We're so sorry. May Jesus' comfort and love bring you peace. Love,
Pat and Jan Wilhelm (Arlington, TX)
To The Loving Griffith Family: I really don't have words to say what I truly feel at this time. I think it's hard for anyone to do so especially when it deals with someone so young and questions come to mind about of what he might have become later on in life. But that is just it, Ryan became what he was supposed to be and that was just Ryan. God made him to live for such a time as this. I have so many memories of him growing up in Church and doing youth activities at your home. And I especially remember how protective he was of you Sara. His spunky way about everything is what made him stand out to me. I laugh at the memories that have been playing in my mind like movies these past few days. Not enought time or space for that. No matter how long you knew him, I thank God for giving him to us for 24 amazing and wonderful years. He truly modeled Christianity and blessed anyone who was able to know him. Ryan is at HOME and has reached the land of promise. We love you and miss you all. May His grace and peace be with you. Zeph 3:14-17
In Christian Love,
Jonathan (Arlington), Cora and Savannah Buehler (Alpharetta, GA)
Griffith Family, Ryan was so special to all of us and I just remember how his smile could light up the room in an instant. I am so saddened by his passing, but am rejoicing in the truth that he is with our Lord. Our prayers are with each of you.
Barbara (Norman) Klepper (Tulsa, OK)
Dear Diana, Mike & family, I want to send my sympathy w/Christian love. My first association w/you was Gladstone Church of Christ in Kansas City, Missouri and then when Diana was my granddaughter's fist babysitter in Arlington, TX. "Baby Sara" is now 20 and a junior at the University of Houston. I called Janice when I heard the sad news about Ryan from Annabelle Richardson at Granbury. The Richardsons plan to attend the service tomorrow and I will attend also.
Any loss is so sad and having lost a son as you have I am truly understanding of this great loss. Leland died after suffering a fatal heart attack at age 50 in 2004. Maybe could have been easier for me if my husband could have helped me through it but we lost Roy in 2002. He had lots of heart problems and then was dianosed w/ cancer which had spread to his bones at the time of diagnosis.
Ina Malone (Arlington, TX)
i had a great memory of ryan the other night. one time he and i took a walk in his old neighborhood in arlington. we talked about a bunch of stuff and he told me about a girl he thought was cute. i can't remember how old we were exactly but i know i was a teenager so he wasn't too far behind. great memory and i miss him very much!
Mike, Diana, Sara, and Caleb,
I think about you every day and pray for comfort and peace for you.
The other day, I remembered how, when Ryan was little, when he wanted to tell you that something was his favorite, he'd call it his best. For instance, his best color was green. Thinking of that brought a smile.
Love,
Brian
I was thinking the other day of all the nicknames I had for Ryan: Griff, Rhino, Chunk, Chunky Soup, Redbird, Buddy.
He liked Griff the best, though.
The first time Ryan and I went to Opportunity Camp in California, he worked with the younger boys. He would let them climb all over him and would carry them all over the camp. It didn't matter if the destination was all uphill he had at least two kids hanging all over him. :)
i just wanted to say that i miss ryan so much...i'm thinking about him alot today. we miss you, man!
i'm thinging about you guys...you are always on my heart...
Ryan, you are still not forgotten...we miss you!
Thinking about you today...
I was talking with some friends today and couldn't think of a line to the movie we were discussing. I immediately thought of Ryan! He was my go-to man when I needed movie trivia help.
Later on when I thought of the answer, it wasn't as gratifying as it would have been if Ryan had helped me.
I miss Rhino.
25 next week. how do you like that? this is something i will not ever understand.
A lot of us will never understand this........
Ryan was always a gentleman when the Phi Alphas had their sleepover at his house. I remember freshman year, my first sleepover, and he showed us the new appliance in the basement.
He was so proud of the pop cooler fridge thing he'd managed to swipe from the student center. We thought it was funny. It's not like anybody ever used the thing...
i miss ryan so much. everytime i open this site my stomach just aches. larry and i were talking about ryan last week. i was remember how happy and excited ryan sounded the night before he left for korea. that is a happy thought for me -- ryan was doing what he wanted to do and so happy. but i do miss him.
It has been almost a year now since Ryan left us for his heavenly home. How we miss him!! He has left such a huge hole in our lives and hearts. Ryan, we are sad because you are not here but we are comforted to know you are with God in His loving hands.
Ryan, I miss you!
Aunt Debra
I ate some chicken fried steak for you this morning, Ryan. I miss you.
we miss you so much, ryan! you may be gone but you are never forgotten...such a man is impossible to forget no matter the separation...this burden of sadness will always be carried by those who knew you and loved you. mike, diana, sarah, and caleb...my heart breaks again with you...i will help you to carry this...ryan, i thought of your perfect impression of jim carrey today and laughed out loud...thank you!! we miss and love you, brother!!!!
steven
I miss you today, Griff.
Christmas gift, Ryan!!
Ryan always did beat me at the Christmas gift game! He started, like, at Thanksgiving!
Every time Larry and I play 14 I remember how good Ryan at it. He could always see combinations quicker than anyone!
Larry and I had the pleasure ot keeping our grandson Ethan this weekend. I kept thinking that Ethan reminded me of someone. Finally, Larry figured it for me -- Ryan as a little boy. Ryan had an impish little smile and he could use such expressive facial expressions. Ethan has some of those same expressions. Ryan will not be forgotten!
I went out to the swimming pool on this cold December day and guess who I automatically thought of...Ryan and the day his dad dared him to jump in the pool for $$$. I don't think Mike thought he would do it, but Ryan showed him!!!. Of course his aunts had hot towels for him when he got out. Boy was Ryan shivering. It is a wonder he had any teeth after that---they were chattering so much. Miss you Ryan, but looking forward to when we meet again.
Okie Aunt
christmas gift, ryan!!
i can't think of anyone else that would jump into a freezing cold swimming pool other than ryan...what a cool spirit!
merry christmas and we love you!!
steven
Ryan, it is weird to start another year without you. I miss you.
I miss you today, buddy.
I remember finding all the cards mom kept all those years. Ryan gave so many to mom and dad. I remember one from Ryan for Valentine's Day. It had hearts and lots of xoxoxoxo on it. His heart was gigantic.
I wish this was all a sick April Fools joke.
It is hard to believe that 18 months have gone by. Ryan, I think of you every day. I do know that I will see you in heaven one day.
I love you, Rhino.
We're approaching two years and it's still almost unbelievable . . . like it didn't really happen to Griff. The next two weeks will be very hard.
As I look over the words I wrote to go onto the blog "Although we are saddened by his passing..." I kind of want to vomit. That sounds so impersonal. But what to say? "We are devastated he was taken so soon?" Is that better? More appropriate? Poo on all of it.
Yes, I know he is with God but sometimes, that doesn't make me feel much better. I want my brother.
A memory of Ryan... Let's see. We used to dig holes in our backyard to trap "intruders." We would cover the holes with sticks and leaves so that when the "intruder" stepped down, it would look like regular ground but they would fall. It's a wonder we didn't break a leg or something.
I remember one Easter our family spent at Dinosaur Valley and Fossil Rim. We hunted eggs at our camp ground then fed the animals at Fossil Rim. That might have been the trip the ostrich tried to eat our tags through the window... Good times.
It's supposed to get easier as time goes by but it isn't-why is that?
Your namesake is almost here. I wish it didn't have to be this way.
Ryan, your sister loves you so much. Did you know that she and Caleb have named their son after you?
Happy 27th birthday. We miss you SO much! We wish you could be here to see little Ryan-he is adorable like you were when you were just a little guy. Mom and I are taking good care of little Soo Young for you but she misses you too. WLY
Well, bud, Ryan can now roll over like a champ! He has lots of reddish hair. Wonder where he got that? I hope he also gets your impish smile when you are doing something mischievous and your kind demeanor. I have told him all about you. In fact, several stories I will have to wait until he is much older to retell because it will give him some bad ideas! Ideas like jumping off the house onto the trampoline and throwing pecans at passing cars!
I miss you.
Well, I told you that my Ryan was rolling over. Now, not two weeks later, he is doing it both ways. I am such a proud mama. You know, I am a proud sister, too. I am so proud that you graduated from Cascade, despite all your health issues. Really, Ryan. That is so great. When we talk to Claire and my Ryan about college, we can tell them that we ALL graduated from Christian colleges. What a good example!
Well, little bro, I am really missing you today. It was one of those days when I just wanted to hear your soft voice. And not just a recording of it. The real thing. I miss you.
3 years sucks.
I can't believe it's been 3 years! I know Mike, Diana, Sara and Caleb miss Ryan so much! I remember all the smiles he brought to his family and friends! I miss you, Ryan.
Uncle Larry
Three years and it still hurts like it was yesterday. As a grown man, I still cry at least once a week. I can't think of a greater loss.
Pop
Ryan, I miss you every time I see a red-headed kid at school or one with freckles or one with an impish grin!
Aunt Debbie
I beat EVERYONE in the house at Christmas Gift! It would've been the perfect if you had been here. Miss you, bud.
I don't like starting a new year without you. Claire told God to tell you HI the other day during our prayer. I honestly can say that I almost had a cow. I don't know where she got that from. Your niece and nephew are missing out on so much. :(
i was reminded by a complete stranger today that ryan had an impact on so many people...i miss you! never forgotten and much loved!
steven
We played cards last night and it would've been perfect if you had been there. Miss you, bud.
Well, bud, your namesake is rolling everywhere. Not quite crawling yet but still getting around by the roll. First words: dada, bubba (don't get me started on how hick that sounds!) and mama.
I know you would love to see him at this age. He is so happy and fun. Claire, too. They are missing out on so much by not knowing you. They will know you through the stories I tell them but it's not enough. Never enough.
I miss you today.
Claire planted strawberries today. After she was done, she told them to "grow, strawberries! Grow!" You would've liked that.
I scared Claire today. I jumped out from behind Mom and Dad's new house. I didn't mean to scare her as much as I did. She peed her pants. Oops. We all thought you would've been rolling on the floor laughing, like the rest of us. Hopefully, her counseling bill won't be too high. Miss you, bud.
Hey bud. I was thinking about the puff ball that is Soo. How she was so fluffy the day you bought her. I was glad to be there that day. You chose the right dog. Remember you almost chose the white one. It was way too hyper. Then little Soo poked about and won your heart. Mom and Dad, especially Dad, are taking good care of her. Dad dotes on that dog like he gave birth to her! Haha. I guess he hanging on to every bit of you he can. Can't say that I blame him. Miss you.
Ryan, I think of you often.
Little Ryan turned one this week, Buddy. How you would love that little guy! We miss you so much.
You will be 28 tomorrow, Ryan. We miss you so much, Son. Claire and Little Ryan are missing out on a wonderful uncle.
I know the type of uncle you would be- fun and involved, like how Steven is with Brian's kids. I miss you, Griff.
Mom and Dad get back from Hawaii tomorrow. I bet we would all go on vacations together. Shoot, if you were still in South Korea, Hawaii would be a fantastic place to meet!
Miss you a lot today, bud.
Ryan, we took you to the airport 4 years ago today. You were so excited to take Soo Young that you almost left a carry-on bag at security. We miss you so much, and Claire and little Ryan are missing having you as the excellent uncle you would have been to them. Sara keeps your name and picture in Claire's mind and I am sure Ryan will also learn about his namesake. Sara misses you so much.
Love you always and forever. Mom
About four years ago, baby Claire and I were flying to Oregon to surprise Dad for his 60th birthday. We got him good! You were already in Korea but we had planned to give Dad 60 gifts. We had everything from those cheap black combs he likes to Sonic gift cards to Wolf Brand chili to the hanbuk you sent from Korea.
I love fall. It is my favorite time of year, except it is the anniversary of the worst day of my life. I try to think about it positively. You went to meet our Savior in the fall. That works for a while but I miss you.
I bought the Sword and the Stone for the kids. Remember that one? Merlin and Wart/Arthur? Claire got a kick out of knowing that we watched it when we were little.
It's been four long years. We miss you so much. Little things remind me of you: a texas flag, family times, a friendly game of 14, the zoo, the handrails on the escalator (yes, I still have to hold on to them). Your life was cut short at least in human years but I know your years in heaven have been wonderful. We all miss you so much.
What to write that hasn't already been written? I miss you. Selfishly, I wish you were still here.
Caleb discovered a new game that he thinks you would have loved, Wahoo. He is making one for Christmas. Claire has learned that you liked Skittles, so she uses it against me. "Mommy, Uncle Griff looooved Skittles. May I have some?" What a stinker. And my Ryan has dark eyes, much darker than my own. He may have light hair, but his eyes are yours. As for me, I think about you every day. I feel like I have lost a big part of me. Sometimes Mom and Dad will say or do something that I wish I could share with you because you would get such a kick out of it. I guess you probably already know about it, but I still want to be able to call you up.
I miss you so much, Ryan. My heart is breaking today. Please remember how much I love you. Mom
Wishing you were here today, bud.
I was talking to Ryan about you. I showed him the picture I have on my fridge. Caleb and I had just surprised you and Mom and Pop by telling you I was pregnant with Claire. In the picture Caleb and I are next to you and Mom with the bouquet of babies breath. I told Ryan all about it. He looked and said Uncle. My heart melted. He will know you. He will because I will tell him about you. I miss you.
I remember how much you love Christmas, Son. We've been thinking about you all day. Dad and I left Sara and her family this morning. Ryan can say "uncle" now. Sara is keeping your life in her children's lives. She loves you so much and misses you so much. Forever and forever we love you. Mom and Pop
Well we start year five without you, buddy.
Miss you today, bud.
I took the kids to McD's by way of the drive-thru this morning. I was flooded of memories of us stopping there for breakfast, just the two of us, on the way to AHS. You would get OJ and sausage biscuits. I would get DC and apple pies. It is a wonder I didn't weigh 200 pounds.
It hurts so much. Not seeing you. Not getting to make new memories with you.
In some ways it is easier now. But others, still extremely hard. I know it won't ever go away. I don't want it to. That would mean I had forgotten. I won't forget. It aches in me. Something that big never goes away. You were and still are a big presence in my life. I love you, bud.
What would have been your reaction to seeing one of my kids throw a fit? Amused? Horrified? A little of both? Just wondering...
Your neice is such a big girl now. I tell her about you, of course. I wonder which you would have preferred- Uncle Ryan or Uncle Griff?
Miss you today.
Ryan, I miss you today, Mothers Day. I want to see your face and hear Happy Mothers Day, Mom.
Missing you
Thinking about a wonderful nephew today! I miss you,Ryan.
Love,
Uncle Larry
It has been 4 years 9 months. Long years and months. Today is July 4, 2012. You loved this holiday, all the fireworks, going to Karen's house, going to Debra and Larry's house where they bought you loads of fireworks. We watched you pop all of them on their driveway. You always loved this day. We miss you south, Ryan. Mom
We're approaching 5 years and even that thought brings on The Great Sadness from that book called The Shack. It seems like that's how I am most of the time now. You'd think that Mom and I would get better after 5 years but we continue to think how happy you'd be to live in Texas again. We miss you so much. Mom and I take good care of Soo Young and I tell her 2 or 3 times a week about why she's so special-you picked her out at that pet store in Suwon, loved her, took good care of her and flew across the Pacific Ocean with her twice. We have a lot of wonderful, loving memories of your life but Soo is maybe our last physical connection to you. October 4th is going to be very hard this year. You are always in our hearts.
Hey bud. We celebrated Mom's birthday yesterday. Dad's is next week. You sent them traditional Korean outfits for their birthdays that last year.
This time of year is always hard. Missing you. Remembrances are always more sad than happy in the fall. But we do remember. Know that. MB
October is here. Coming up on 5 years. We are going to have our first family pictures taken since you died. I know it is going to be hard for Mom and Dad especially. We have avoided it until now. Know that we remember you and miss you every day.
Been thinking about you all day, Ryan. I miss you. Your mom and dad and sister are in my thoughts right now.
We made it past the five year mark. It was a long day of crying. Some happy tears of remembering and some sad tears of missing you. Know that we DO miss you.
Your namesake turns three next month. He has got a twinkle in his eyes that reminds me of you. Geez, I miss you, bro. I wish his eyes could remind me of you and then I could simply CALL you to talk to you. This sucks.
Thinking of you today. Miss you.
Son, you will be 30 in 12 days. It is so hard to live without seeing you. We miss you so so much. I can't even tell you how much.
Ryan,
Sara, Claire, Ryan, Debra and Larry and I all had a Ryan breakfast this morning in McPherson. Chicken fried steak was tasty. It is still so hard. June 6 holds so many memories of you. I wish dad could have been with us. He takes such good care of Soo for you. Please know how much we miss you and love you.
Missing you forever, Mom
Miss you a lot, Ryan!! We had a good week with your mom, Sara, Claire and your namesake, Ryan. Thinking of you on your birthday.
Ryan,
We saw you for the last time six years ago yesterday. We took you and Soo to the airport not knowing we wouldn't see you again. Know we think of you daily and miss you so much that it hurts. We love you forever.
Mom
I am missing you today, Griff. Claire starts school tomorrow, second grade. It brings back memories of you and I smiling for pictures on our first days of school. I really wish my kids would have more than my stories to know you. It really just breaks my heart. I love you, Sara
October 1. Were you feeling bad at this time seven years ago? Was your blood sugar high? Low? Why didn't you try to fix it? Maybe you did try. I wish you had tried harder. I wish you were here today and these next few days meant nothing to me.
Thinking about you this weekend, Ryan. I miss you and wish you were here! I miss your smile!!
Uncle Larry
The kids went to the Bunny Breakfast this morning. They ate pancakes, did crafts, played a little mini golf and hunted for eggs. I can't help but think you would have been a fun uncle. I can see you tagging along with them and helping. Miss you, buddy.
You would love Camp Cousin.
Eight years ago today was the start of the Great Sadness our family suffers through, bud. It meets is in our dreams and haunts us in our memories. But, saddest of all, it has robbed us of a future with you. We love you and miss you terribly. 8 years.
Ryan lost another tooth today. His big toothless grin made me think of a picture I have of you, looking almost the same. Only your hair color is different, so auburn. Miss you, bud.
All of us are walking around Kemah, riding rides and goofing around. Wish you were here too.
Ryan, I miss your smile today as another Mother's Day passes without you. You know that I love Sara so much and still miss you and what Sara and her family will miss out on without you.
I am trying hard to see beyond this world. To know in my heart that Jesus took you home. I am sad you went so far ahead of me. I miss you. But I am remembering that this isn't forever. I will see you when I go home, too. Make a spot for me. Best 2 out of 3 in 14?
Happy birthday, Griff. 34. I wish you had gotten to see it on this side of paradise.
I read tonight about death bringing on feelings of sorrow upon sorrow. That phrase hit home. Even though I know Heaven is real, I hurt. It hurts like hell for you to be gone.
Tomorrow is 10 years since you’ve been gone. I miss you all the time. When Mom does something goofy, I can’t look over at you and make a face. I sometimes look up to where you are but it isn’t the same. 10 years. Sorrow upon sorrow.
We made bacon, sausage and eggs this morning, If you had been here, we would’ve had gravy and potatoes too. :(
Enter Sandman just came on the radio. I feel like that might have been from you. Miss you, bud.
I miss you. If you were here, I would have called you this morning. Just to talk. Somehow talking to myself as I drive doesn’t count.
Sara sent videos of Claire and Ryan reading their Easter cards. Ryan really loved reading his and acted like you would have. You would love your niece and nephew, just like they would love you. We miss you so much. It hurts.
Hey, Griff, you are so missed here. Tomorrow is July 4 here in Kingwood, a place you have never lived. Little Soo gets scared with all the fireworks going off so she will be in one of our laps all day. She is a little porker! She does love her treats. We are taking good care of your sweet, little dog, and tell her we do it for you,
We love you and miss seeing and being with you even though you are in Heaven now. It has been a long 10 and 1/2 years without you here. Our hearts still hurt.
Mom and Dad
l miss you, bud.
I didn't want to go to work today. I wanted to stay home and feel bad, not pretend to be normal in front of a classroom. Today I feel crummy because of you and today I can fake my smile because of you. I wish you were here and today was just like any other day.
My Ryan found a tiny frog outside this weekend. It was the size of a dime. That little thing hopped all over him. He laughed like you would have, with unadulterated joy. He has your eyes, dark and kind, and your name. I gave him an extra hug this morning on his way out the door to school for you. I hope you felt it.
Mom and I picked our Schlitterbaun trip date yesterday. Our last one. I wish you were here to go with us. The kids would love fun Uncle Griff. ❤️
I wish I would’ve received a call from you wishing me a happy birthday. Just to hear your voice.
Christmas has come and gone, another year without you. We watched Goonies with the kids. I wish you had been there.
I saved a rose from your funeral, and I accidentally smooshed it today. That single act has put me in the worst mood.
Hey, bud. We are moving from a house that you have never lived in. As we pack, I find things that were yours. I love seeing your things, but it so bittersweet. Miss you so much and love you, Mom
I went for a walk this morning and a red bird flew around me for a half a block. Even though it is cold and nasty outside and the walk was miserable, that red bird made my day.
Claire and Ryan love to hear stories about you. I told Ryan the one about you and Andrew giving a hamster/gerbil CPR with a straw. He cracked up hearing it. It helped me sleep that night. We love and miss you so much. You will be 36 next month. Missing you do much especially as Mothers Day passes by without you and your birthday arrives. I love remembering the day you were born. You were perfect!
Now you are perfect with God.
Mom
Been thinking of you so much this week, Ryan. You will be 36 Thursday.
Your 36th birthday is today. We had gravy with biscuits this morning and CF steak tonight. Claire and Ryan would have loved you. You would have spoiled them. Sara keeps your memory alive for them. I told Ryan about you and Andrew trying to resuscitate that hamster with a straw. Ryan just laughed and giggled. Miss you, bud.
Happy birthday, little brother. Know that you are missed every day, and especially today. I ate shrimp scampi for lunch, al by myself. While I didn’t eat as much as you were known to do, I thought of you with each bite. Claire and Ryan love hearing about you.
It has a long 12 years tomorrow since we last saw you, Ryan. Such a long time yet such a short time you were here with us. Dad, Sara, and I miss you so much, son.
Ryan has been on mind and in my heart.
I miss you, Ryan.
Christmas isn’t the same without you, bud.
Tomorrow is your birthday. You would be 37. Buddy, we miss you so that it hurts my heart. Sara misses you and has made sure Claire and Ryan know who their Uncle Ryan was.
Ryan, your little Soo is with you now. We are missing her but it is more important that you know we miss you so much that we still hurt in our hearts like it happened yesterday. We know you are with Jesus. We love you, Son.
Ryan, your little Soo is with you now. We are missing her but it is more important that you know we miss you so much that we still hurt in our hearts like it happened yesterday. We know you are with Jesus. We love you, Son.
Your niece is wearing one of your shirts and a bracelet you made. Your namesake sleeps in one of your shirts, too.
I miss you every day. Give Soo a hug from me.
Today never gets easier.
Even after 13 years, it is not easy.
I miss you today, Ryan.
I am wearing your most favorite Metallica shirt to sleep, so you’ll be with us tomorrow. It’s not the same without you. Merry Christmas, Rhino. I miss you every day.
Ryan, your sweet sister loves you so much. Anyone can see that love on her face and in her actions. I miss you so much. You always loved Christmas and seeing your family together.
Ryan, we are going through some hard stuff. I miss you now, more than ever.
Mom and Dad rented a house two miles from mine. All we need is you to make it perfect. I wish you were here.
We spread Soo’s ashes near you today, along side a big bag of Skittles. We always celebrate the day you were born, buddy. It is a good day. We love and miss you everyday.
Today is your 38th birthday. We all miss you so much, Son.
My Ryan reminds me of you sometimes. He is gentle and goofy. I think you would’ve liked him. He likes to hear stories of stuff we did together and of your adventures. I am missing you this Father’s Day. I know Mom and Pop would love to have you with us. I sometimes imagine how much fun we would have if you could only be here.
There was a VB reunion of sorts today. It hurts my soul that you can only see it from up there. Selfishly, I want you here.
We went to a Rangers game today. It would have been perfect if you had been here.
Aunt Debbie and Uncle Larry got a black poodle today. Pop, Mom and I went with them to pick up the sweet pup. I know you would’ve been as excited as Aunt Debbie was. We miss you, bud.
Missing you today
Your niece and nephew put out Skittles for you today. We are going to the fair to play games, eat fried food and spend all day together. It is easy to do this because we know you would be here with us if you could. So when I eat a Nathan’s corn dog, I will salute you and your kind ways. I love and miss you, little brother.
Missing you today, bud
I think you would’ve liked Nertz. I miss you.
I don’t know if heavenly birthdays are a thing but I like to think that they are. Give Papaw, Gma and Gpa a big hug from me. We are going to eat CFS today and think of you all day. I miss you every day.
Oh yeah- Christmas gift!! I’m getting a head start this year.
Mom and Pop are moving a mile from my house. It thrills me to no end. Debra and Larry are working hard to get them all situated, I know you would be in the mix, too. I wish YOU could live there too. I love and miss you everyday.
I sang along when Enter Sandman played just now. Miss you.
It’s coming up on 15 years. 15 long, hard yet awesome and fulfilling years. I miss you every day, Ryan. Caleb told me this weekend that my Ryan reminded him so much of you. If that is the case, I’m a happy mom.
15 years is too long to not have seen your face or heard your voice
Missing you
I miss you every day.
Enter Sandman is playing right now. Miss you.
I miss you, bud. I wish you were here.
You would’ve been 40 this week. I feel robbed of all this time without you.
I think of you every day but especially today, old man. It feels kinda wrong to type that but I know you would call me old, so I am sticking to our usual dynamic. I love and miss you.
16 years is too long.
I just miss you. I wish you were here right now, sitting in the living room with me.
I miss you today especially
Every day
Hey bud. I just heard about red eye gravy today. It is gravy made with coffee grounds. I want your opinion on this when I get up there. Coffee grounds?!?! Respectable? We’ll see…
Hey, Bud. Give Pop the biggest hug when he gets to see you up there. He’s coming soon. Be there to welcome him, okay? I love you.
Hey bud- I hope you and Pop are living it up up there. I miss you both so much. It’s hard on Mom and I not being able to see you both. I don’t know how Heaven works- are you 24? Is Pop 76? Sometimes I picture him in his 40s wearing those short basketball shorts he wore. But that would make you a kid, and I really liked adult you. I don’t know. High five Jesus for me and save us a spot.
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